China and the United States by secretly appear

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These days two puzzles have been haunting me.

First, why did Trump make so much action for international affairs? Including raid Syria, anger North Korea, change the role of NATO certainly, within 15 days and Xi Jinping meet twice a call.

Second, why is China at this time set off an unprecedented financial crisis, set off an unprecedented strength of the property market to buy tide?

With some insiders to do the exchange, and to see the recent two big move – the White House throw tax reform program, Zhongnanhai collective learning financial security – about to understand.

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Why did Trump suddenly come out at the international level? Secret hidden before and after what happened.

Before Trump took office after the first big move – medical reform program, accidentally sent to the parliamentary vote in the process of frustration. People on the implementation of the New Deal is expected to change, the capital market immediately expressed concern with the decline.

After that, Trump has recently raised a tax reform outline. Tax reform is the most important move of Trump New Deal, it can be said that there is no “one”. But his biggest challenge is whether the legislature will pass it. When the implementation of the tax system in China, Zhu Rongji a province and a province to talk, do the work, took a lot of effort to push the tax reform. Compared to the centralization of China, the separation of the United States to implement the tax reform is difficult to 10 times difficult.

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In the fall of the medical reform and will be to promote the tax reform between the Trump frequently in the international affairs of the shot.

Note that all the governance initiatives of Trump, and finally to the “priority to the United States,” the campaign slogan. With the “American priority”, Trump put forward a strategic contraction, that is, first make the United States own thing, “the international break that I did not mind to control.”

But in late March medical reform fell within a month after the occurrence of unusual things. On the one hand to mention the United States priority, strategic contraction, on the one hand the Middle East, North Korea intensive shot.

This strategic contradiction, and only one explanation:

International action is only a means, it is to solve the internal affairs problem.

Medical reform frustrated, Trump urgent need to reshape the prestige, access to the support of the domestic people and parliamentarians. A hard-line move with American values ​​is a quick way to get support tickets.

The following figure is Trump’s unsupported rate of a month, the figure A, B two relatively low, it is Trump sent to Congress to explain the Syrian attack, and published pressure on the policy point of time. The tough stance reduced his unsupported rate.

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“A series of international action, is the New Deal’s circuitous road map, is to promote the domestic core policy.”

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Why did China set off an unprecedented financial crisis?

Look at this time to the action:

• Foreign exchange rate: stabilize the exchange rate and manage capital outflows
• Stock market: encirclement “sabotage”
• The property market: Severely exceeds the limit at any time
• Banking: regulates storms and directs the shadow banking business

These actions have a common point of view, that is, on April 25, the theme of the Politics Bureau collective learning: financial security.

Decision-making on the financial and economic attitudes have changed:

1. From 2012 onwards, China has experienced a round of financial liberalization, financial innovation boom, P2P, shadow bank is a typical representative, and now the decision-making has shifted from financial liberalization, innovation is located in the regulation.

2. The latest Politburo meeting, the emphasis on growth is weakening, and the emphasis on “risk prevention” is more pronounced.

3. The Zhongnanhai topic learning financial security, laid the next period of time the tone of financial development, is “safe.”

The financial security has risen to the level of national security, of course, there are concerns about the reality of virtual, asset bubbles, but there is a real factor is essential, that is, the biggest thing in the political field of 2017 – 19 big.

This year’s many trends, into the background of 19 to make an accurate understanding.

In order to meet the General Assembly, can not tolerate a little slip, regulation is more important to innovation, risk first to maintain growth, is an inevitable choice.

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There is a popular saying in international politics: all the internal affairs of the United States are diplomats, and all Chinese diplomacy is internal.

Now, China and the United States have all overriding the internal affairs of this, the outside world seems to dazzle a lot of cards, are around the kernel in the fight.

This point of view, you can explain a lot of unusual behavior.

Apply Clinton to beat the old Bush slogan “fool, the problem is the economy”, now the US card is: fool, all the war is the internal affairs!

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Trump is not easy to advance the way through the international action.

First had to cruel “to Russia.”

Trump campaign did not hide the favor of Putin, the team has been the core figures were exposed and Russia from the very close, as well as analysis of Trump took office will take the Russian anti-Chinese strategy.

But the United States values ​​will not tolerate the United States and Russia together, Trump to 59 missiles on the Syrian, announced with Putin cut robe cut.

Followed by the offended friends to get back.

Trump said before that NATO was “out of date”, but in mid-April changed NATO “not out of date, but also a barrier to international peace.”

But the above is not critical. “From the diplomatic circuitous internal affairs,” this road to pass through, must be China cooperation.

North Korea card, exchange rate card, trade warfare, all with China.

From the beginning of the practice, Trump showed abnormal enthusiasm. 115 days to meet twice a call, said in an interview with the Chinese leaders “have a great chemical reaction.”

More direct performance is that Trump yesterday rejected the Taiwan leaders and their telephone recommendations, “do not want to trigger a relationship with China.” This contrast with the four months ago, Trump broke the regular call with Cai Yingwen.

Power relations is a game, count about Trump “pay – harvest” list.




Pay:

• Exchange rate warfare, a tough stance, change China is not a currency manipulator.

• Trade warfare, “trade war first opened from China,” which is almost a consensus, did not expect Trump from the closest neighbor in Canada, the media described as “Trump Trade Road map: first at home to play his wife ‘The last is China’, which obviously gives the United States to adjust the space.

reward:

• China’s acquiescence and positive attitude towards North Korea’s settlement.

• China is committed to improving the “Hundred Days Plan” in terms of trade surplus.

Obviously, the two major countries to carry out the exchange of chips, have their own income. Trump won more on the North Korean issue of space, China to avoid the direct conflict of trade war and can focus on the settlement of domestic affairs.

April 25, an American reconnaissance plane landed in South Korea’s Wushan Air Force Base, April 25, an American reconnaissance plane landed in South Korea’s Wushan Air Force Base.

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China’s domestic affairs, from a security point of view is a return to steady state, constantly bombing process.

The first bomb is capital outflow. The national foreign exchange reserves fell from $ 4 trillion to $ 3 trillion, down by a quarter.

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China has used severe capital controls and exchange rates to freeze capital flows.

The first quarter of this year, the outflow situation stabilized down, the data to the better. But there are two new challenges.

The first challenge is the US currency manipulator list, it is not just a hat to you, but the relationship between import and export taxation, trade friction, monetary policy and other practical interests. This question was solved by China. Demolished a small bomb.

But the second challenge is nuclear-level. The United States into the rate hike cycle, but also the table (which means that the dollar will be reduced in circulation).

Popular explanation, the United States to raise interest rates, interest rates rise, your money will be more money to the US income. Other countries have to follow the interest rate increase, otherwise, your interest rate is very low, the US interest rate is getting higher and higher, the greater the impulse to capital flows to the United States. In this way, the capital outflow will be repeated.

It is very simple, followed by a piece of the United States to raise interest rates chanting. At this time, another nuclear bomb waiting for you.

Raising interest rates will let the currency shrink, so that the economy cools, so generally in the economy up when the introduction of interest rates. China’s economy is now in the downstream stage, and there is a rate hike will pierce the property market bubble great worries.

Raising interest rates, in front of the property market crash of the nuclear bomb; not raising interest rates, in front of the capital outflow of nuclear bombs. So the price of a house or the exchange rate of controversy.

On the decision-making level, the ultimate is to “security”, two nuclear bombs must be done.

The strategy is to raise interest rates on the one hand, although the benchmark interest rate has not yet moved, but the medium-term borrowing to facilitate operating interest rates, standing lending convenience, reverse repurchase rate increased, the interest rate center is actually rising, the last two Month central bank even appeared in the table.

On the other hand, the property market for an unprecedented large purchase. This purchase has a characteristic: short-term buyers and sellers to both sides see the face.

Holders of limited sales, divorce limit purchase, social security period lengthened, recognized the credit limit, the purpose is “with a very rigid administrative way to quickly frozen real estate market”, the more fundamental purpose is to make asset bubbles and interest rates Run isolation.

Temporarily deal with the capital outflow and the property bubble after the two nuclear bombs, the decision-making level aimed at another buried deeper bomb – the banking industry off-balance sheet business, which set off a recent regulatory storm.

Bank’s off-balance sheet business is the main form of financial products, long opaque, opaque no supervision, no regulation is very chaotic, and even appeared Minsheng Bank as a scam.

This piece of financial involved in the amount of a large number of tens of trillion yuan, from the security plan, must rule.

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Trump introduced the tax reform program, the People’s Daily issued a comment, saying that “the US tax cuts are actually provoking a tax war.” This point is a bit wonderful, but it tells the truth:

The world’s veterans of the old two are in their own internal affairs, international affairs as much as possible consistent, no conflict on the surface, but in fact their respective internal orientation, secretly staged battle.

Trump’s tax reform, the company tax from 35% to 15%, to attract more companies to invest in the United States. While the remittance tax rate of US companies in overseas assets is also reduced.

This is the essence of the competition for capital. Capital in China will also be affected.

Kissinger said that if you control the oil, you control all the countries; if you control the food, you control everyone; if you control the currency, you control the whole world.

The battle has never been carried out and will not stop because of the great powers’ focus on internal affairs. The current general situation is:

The United States, through reform, tries to “pull” the resources by increasing its attraction;

China through regulation, by reducing the way the transaction, in the resources “frozen” live and “stable” to live.

Because there are 19 major, this year China’s main tone must be stable, do not expect a big reform action.

The Politburo’s collective study on financial security raises six tasks, one of which is “financial reform” and an emphasis on the establishment of a risk prevention mechanism.

While the United States, Trump political life are bet on the New Deal. Now the whole world is looking at how the United States changed.

The banner of reform is now carried by the United States, the rotation of this history, interesting and people sigh.

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The most can see after marriage will not be happy, is this moment

A girl and her boyfriend talked for two years of love, has been to talk about the degree of marriage, the two parents will sit together to talk about the details of the wedding.

In order to have the heart, the girl and her boyfriend decided to talk about the two questions first, for the first to reach the same.

However, the parents did not sit together, the two quickly collapsed, the reason is simple: for the house plus unnamed thing.

Girl and boyfriend’s family is almost, are not very rich, not very poor, the basic can be considered a good friend.

In the boyfriend to college, the parents seize the opportunity to buy a hundred flat in the city center of the house, when the mortgage, and now has paid off the loan, before the fear of decoration out of date, until recently began to renovate.

In accordance with their local customs, the general man to buy a house, hard clothing finished, the woman to buy furniture appliances, so the girl suggested that when married, furniture, home appliances they will be responsible for all, but the house asked to add their own name, this is the parents and their own meaning.

But the boyfriend that the house because of the good location, and now has a value of 2 million, and spent 20 million hard, these are all their own home out, and all the furniture, but also add up to 10 million or so, they asked themselves Home to send half a suite, it seems wrong!

The girl’s reason is very full: If the house does not have my name, I do not have a sense of security, say, a woman born more than a man to pay more than, for example, after the child to delay the cause, take care of the child’s responsibility mostly falls on the head of a woman , But these invisible to pay, often not sure, their request for the name, but also for the future a little protection, this request is too much?

Men think: this is the parents have long bought the house, is not a common property of husband and wife, marriage has not knitted to the first half of the house, and you in the end love house or love me? And your family out of 10 million, we must enjoy the interests of more than 100 million, your home can really count ah, if not long married you have to divorce me, then my family is not lost half of the house?

So, the girl asked me, this matter in the end who is right, in the end is a boyfriend is too stingy, or their own requirements too much, women want a little sense of security is wrong? Really love a man’s man, with his fiancee care about half a house?

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Let’s talk about another story!

Before working, know a boy, parents are executives, income is good, the family has several sets of houses, he is the only child, in college, he likes a girl, very good to her, all the way towards the marriage go with.

Girl ‘s family is more general, they married, the boys’ parents said to give them a house, a car, boys called the girl ready to account and identity card, he intends to write two names.

Girl refused to say: This is your parents to give you the house and the car, I Han did not contribute, or do not write my name.

Boys insisted: This is not just my meaning, but also the meaning of my parents, my parents said that since they sent us these, is looking forward to us to live a good day, after we are husband and wife, my thing is your, even if the future really Of the break up, and do not lose people to treat the girl.

Girl is very moved, the house after the name, the girl took the initiative to find a lawyer made a supplementary clause, if the future because of her cause marriage disintegration, then, will take the initiative to return this part of the property.

After marriage, the feelings of the two very good, the first year of marriage, according to local customs, should be in her mother-in-law, the girl and parents are very traditional, fully respect this custom, but in-laws and her husband put forward:

The relatives took over, the two of us New Year together! You and we have, they deserted, and if they have been, we are deserted, the two together, more lively.

In that place, relatives together is almost no New Year, the girl’s parents are very heart, but also worried about the eyes of others, had no choice but to refuse the pro-family’s good intentions.

So, New Year’s Eve that day, in-laws and small husband and wife filled with a car New Year, came to accompany them with the New Year, but also created their first time with the New Year’s history.





Nowadays, seven or eight years have passed, the relationship between the two is still very harmonious, in-laws are very considerate parents with the parents of the mood, the girl’s parents always teach her daughter to be kind-hearted, so that they enjoy old age.

Say the little couple, once the boys, and now has grown into a responsible son, husband, father, also has his own career, and steady development, the girl in a business also made the manager’s position, income It was nice to have a lovely son.

I think this is the appearance of the marriage it!

And then back to the beginning of the problem that, in my opinion, this is not the fault of who is wrong, if the right or wrong, each have their own reasons, each have their own plans, what is wrong with it?

In fact, I think, even where the two people will appear this problem, in fact, there is no need to get married, because the marriage is so care about their two people and even two people, do not become married after marriage, love each other Yet? Most can see the marriage will not be happy, that is, the two people sit together, talk about the details of the wedding.

Many girls told me how the marriage is how unhappy, in-laws and her husband how to put themselves as outsiders.

I do not believe that a selfish cool thin people, before marriage can hide the water does not leak, the performance was generous tolerance, after marriage to refresh the lower limit, everything is just your attention or ignored it.

For example, the girl in the text, she asked me the question is who is right? It can be said that tangled this question who is right or wrong, there is no meaning. Behind all the problems, can reflect the deep human nature and worries.

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The so-called house name, at least can reflect the two big problems.

First: this question reflects the feelings of how not pure and can not stand the test, you do not believe that I will shelter for you, I do not believe you will and I grow old, you will not understand It is not easy for my parents to buy a house, and I will not take care of your sense of security.

So, both people just want to pay more each other, so that the other to give up more benefits and bear the risk of the future. Is there such a deep love and affection between the two people?

No! Since there is no basis for this feeling, how in the future years of marriage, the face of a variety of tests? If such a combination of two people, once the future of any change, staged a “husband and wife this is the same forest birds, disaster early fly their own”, in fact, nothing surprising.

Second: from this matter can be seen in the two family’s character, are selfish class, and each have their own parents, so that the combination of two people, how could become a family?

Although the selfish people have, but if the marriage of selfish calculation, how could a good life? If so, is it necessary to get married?

Happy marriage, must be the sake of each other, each other to pay, rather than each other calculate the interests of each other to pass the risk, do not blame the marriage is now unreliable, but you are in the beginning of marriage has been considered when the divorce of the distribution of benefits The.

Some people say that the marriage is too fragile, had to consider for themselves a little more. So, I just want to ask a question, after you consider for yourself, is to get more protection or lost the most basic between the trust of husband and wife?

In fact, I think, with their pondering how to maximize their own interests in marriage, it is better to use this time to fight their own business, more tricky.

When your eyes can be moved from the marriage and move to a broader space, you can really invincible, whether it is house or money, are not as reliable as your ability.

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There is only one man in this world who does not love ambiguous

Girlfriend small fennel night to call, she was on the phone head broke down in tears:
 
“I quarreled with my boyfriend, and I went out with pajamas and slippers, and even the wallet had forgotten, and now I was drinking the northwest wind on the street! Can I live in your house tonight?
 
I quickly said: “Well, you hurry to make a car to my house, I go to the door to pick you up, the fare I help you pay.
 
Put down the phone, I hurried out from the bed, rummaging through to find that long to the ankle of the blue and blue down jacket, then rush to pick up the wallet, sprint speed to the cell door toward the door.
 
In the cold of the night, waiting for fifteen minutes, the fennel from a yellow and green taxi in the panic down, his face tears, eyes are swollen swollen.
 
I ran quickly, put the down jacket on her, pay the fare, arms around her shoulder, slowly go home
 
Along the way, we are very understanding, no one speak. I just clutched her cold hand tightly and wanted to give her some warmth and strength.
 
Back home, I directly to the whole body cold and cold, lips frozen purple fruiting into the bed, gave her a cup of hot milk, holding the hot milk that moment, fennel could not help but burst into tears, Soybeans big tears like a broken line of beads, Pata Patai fall into the milk cup.
 
I clutched her tightly and asked, “What happened to the end? Is not that immediately going to get married?”
 
Small anise edge crying that she accidentally see her boyfriend old Yang’s cell phone text messages, he actually sent to the first love message: “I’m sorry, I could not help but start to miss you.
 
The most disgusting is that the cheap woman also returned the message: “I also miss you, my dear!”
 
Then, she spent a afternoon time, the two slut WeChat, microblogging and QQ turned overturned, the dog men and women actually interact more frequently than her. This is clearly offended before marriage!
 
I suddenly stopped the furious anise: “not right! Lao Yang’s first love is not you fennel? From high school has been catching up to your university graduation, you are really hurt the sea, the sun and the moon can be Kam, can not casually Derail it! ”
 
Small anise evil said fiercely, I also recently learned that he was chasing me before, but also crush on a green tea bitch, that woman is particularly cold, has not taken care of him, so I turned back to catch me. Lao Yang said that since the high school group announced the news of our marriage, the green tea bitch began to find a variety of reasons hook him.
 
I could not help but comfort the fennel, it is estimated that the old Yang is to make up for the puberty before marriage regret, talk about the show, playing ambiguous only, will not really cheer!
 
Small fen eyebrows looked at me: “Do you think playing ambiguous, chatting is not betrayal? This is clearly the spirit of derailment! You do not often say that the affair is like a cockroach, you caught one, there are thousands Hiding in the corner, so an infidelity is not.

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I laughed and said: “Honestly, I am also very opposed to ambiguous, but ten years of feelings, you really easy to put it? In all fairness, old yang to you really want to wait for Lafayette nothing. And he broke up, find one, you can be sure he will be 100% loyal to you?
 
Small fen staring at a pair of innocent eyes, face disappointed to ask me, is this the world is not absolutely loyal to the feelings of a good man, for the beloved woman refused all the ambiguous it?
 
Honestly, it is difficult for me to answer the question of fennel, because I am not sure whether this world is in the end,

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 Ambiguous and IQ also have a relationship?
 
The final fennel or Lao Yang broke up.
 
She blushed to me that she was a stubborn girl who had a feeling of being reluctant to your eyes and could not be in her eyes. She can not stand any form of betrayal, even if only ambiguous
 
She believes that the world must have a man like her, like the feelings of loyalty.
 
She vowed to wait until that refused for her all the ambiguous man.
 
But this world, in the end there is no ambiguous men do not play it?
 
I do not know.
 
I am a very real person, the hearts of a question, we must understand clearly, will let go.
 
So with this problem, I went to ask a lot of men. They have said that in their eyes and chat with the girl, not derailed, so most of the time, they will be the name of “friends” under the banner and the girls who talked about their lives, talk ideal, revealing the voice. Once found by his girlfriend will be confidently said: “We are just friends, chatting a day only, and consequently did not do.
 
In fact, there is no pure friendship between men and women. The friendship between the opposite sex is above the friends, lovers less than the ambiguous state.
 
When I cast this question to the female friends, they immediately opened Tucao mode, vocal opposition to the various ambiguous behavior of men.
 
Say that rabbits do not eat nest grass, but the ambiguous object of men are often friends circle of women or female colleagues, and their usual ambiguous trick, usually step by step. From the microblogging, friends circle interaction to the night to chat, and slowly feel that meet each other, have a good impression, especially talk to, in the end, each other photos, voice and video, and finally developed into underground or artillery.
 
If the beginning of the chat stage was found by his girlfriend, they will be very innocent, friends circle a zan, WeChat chatting day only, as fuss, on the line on the line?
 
But some men are particularly cheap, do not give their girlfriend comment point zan, and never in the circle of friends and microblogging published girlfriend photos and any information, but hand cheap to go to other women attentive zan, comment, WeChat early in the evening please please.
 
What is this ambiguous?
 
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Like that network hot words that show no love is to give others the opportunity to stay.
 
When the man in the friend circle pseudo-single, nothing more than to the side of the single women issued an ambiguous signal: “I single, seeking contacts!”
 
Women are a kind of natural lack of sense of safety of animals, if you really fall in love with a person they will become sensitive and suspicious, tentacles, jealous, a little bit, a little hypocritical, they can not wait for all the women of the boyfriend phone directory As imaginary enemy, anxious to delete all of them were assured.
 
But the world really have a man in order to give each other enough sense of security, and the phone address book in the women all deleted, into the opposite sex insulator it?
 
Have! Estimated not on earth, you can go to Mars on the luck.
 
In the earth, 10 men, 7 silly, 8 stay, 9 bad, there is a love for everyone, so that the eleventh man is definitely “Mars man”!
 
Fortunately, go round, turn a hundred thousand back, the fennel really met a “Mars man”, and the other is still a handsome gold tyrant.
 
No wonder there will be psychological experts say, the higher the IQ of the couples on duty, the higher the loyalty. According to the research survey shows that: IQ of 100 or more people out of the rate of only 10%, while the IQ below 96 in the derailment rate reached more than 70%.
 



Because the IQ of men are mostly mature and rational, standing on the other side of the problem, so they can resist the temptation of the outside world.
 
They look at the problem is comprehensive, far-reaching, they will weigh the risks of affair and the impact of life, because they can better control and restrain their ability.
 

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I only have to leave your stubborn, but did not forget your strength.
 
Fennel and her “Mars Man” is known at the party of friends.
 
At that time, small anise free romance did not take long, the mood is particularly low, in order to let her out of the pain of romance as soon as possible, a friend told her to go out happy.
 
That friend meeting is in a very style of the cafe, we went to know later, the boss Mr. Wen is their high school alumni, high school science and technology, high school after graduation directly went to Canada to finance. After returning home, opened a theme cafe.
 
That day, the companions of the sisters on Mr. Wen showed great interest, enthusiasm and he chatted about high school when the interesting.
 
Only the silence of the fennel, has been lonely looking at the square outside the fountain on the square in a daze, her frowned eyebrows seems to be filled with thoughts.
 
Mr. Wen to see the sad look, do not make the powder of the fennel, the heart can not help but burst into layers of waves.
 
To be honest, fennel is not the kind of amazing beauty, but quiet and elegant, intellectual full, faint eyebrows in the white skin against the background is fresh and pleasant, belonging to the kind of very beautiful temperament beauty.
 
Oblique shot 45 ° sunshine, gently sprinkled on the side face of the fennel, all this, the beautiful like a picture, so that Mr. Wen intoxicated.
 
Mr. Wen side casually replied to friends of the problem, while pretend to use inadvertently with the light watching the fennel.
 
All this, little fennel did not notice that her thoughts have long been flying to high school during her hot pursuit of the old Yang who, when the old Yang was so good for her, then every time she rushed Help her work, put a little penny filled with love words covered her desk.
 
University, the two off-site love, Lao Yang almost every day to give fennel four or five hours of telephone, for which he every day to live frugally, a month of food costs compressed to 100 dollars, the rest The money is brought and the fennel pot talk porridge.
 
University of a graduate, in order to be able to and fennel together, Lao Yang to test the small fen home of civil servants.
 
Later, small anise can not stand the boring life of small cities, want to go to Beijing Kaoyan continue to study. Lao Yang did not say anything, quit the work of civil servants, followed by a small fennel to Beijing, every day desperately overtime, and strive to make money for small fennel research.
 
Fennel really can not figure out, born honest old Yang, how could other women say “I love you”, he loves himself, how and other women will play ambiguous. Also made such a disgusting photo.
 
The thought of here, small anise nose sour, can not help but red eye socket.
 
In order not to be seen by others, she quickly bowed his head, picked up the phone, made a circle of friends: I only leave your stubborn, but did not forget your strength.
 
All this is Mr. Wen panoramic view.

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Does the man refuse all ambiguous to die?
 
Since then, Mr. Wen has often invited various fennel for various reasons to go to his cafe to attend various classmates. In fact, only three or four people each time a small party only.
 
Fennel never thought that this handsome subordinate brother and what their own disputes.
 
Until one day, small fennel found that good classmate party, in fact, only two of them. Mr. Wen hastily find an excuse to say: “We are all about it!”
 
When Mr. Wen carefully to the big white people exposed voice, the small fenyi righteously refused his confession.
 
Feni know, around the gentleman around the Yingying Yan Yan there are a lot of them ring fat Yan thin, dressed up every day gorgeously dressed, begging handsome multi-gold Mr. Wen more glance, a lot of opportunities to marry giants.
 
Mr. Wen as a result of work, often attend some entertainment, inevitably have to contact some of the enchanting sexy girl, and Mr. Wen friends circle of rich children, many are harem three thousand. This makes the small fennel is not a sense of security, as the saying goes, near the author of the red ink near the black. This is often walking in the river, how can not wet shoes?
 
After the friend was informed of the reasons for being rejected, Mr. Wen and the fennel for a very deep conversation.
 
Mr. Wen to his small fen talked about his childhood, in his memory, the father is always endless entertainment, every night drunk drunk home.
 
The mother alone is muffled all day long, often secretly crying.
 
Although the father of the cause more and more successful, but accompany them less and less time, which makes him very eager to warm the family.
 
From the sensible, Mr. Wen secretly swear, if married after a child, must be accompanied by family, to love and children enough love and security.
 
So, when he first saw the gentle and kind of fennel, the bright sunshine sprinkled on her, so that his heart was very warm, as if to see their own home, waved in their own. That is, at that time Mr. Wen in the bottom of my heart that this is the rest of his life with the other half.
 
On the fenyi worried by friends with bad, Mr. Wen vowed to say that he is a friend in the circle is a heterogeneous, never and those who have ulterior motives to play. He knew very well that the real girl was lying in bed at night, or chasing the TV series, and occasionally slept. Who will and a group of big men in the entertainment place to laugh ah!
 
Over the years, he looked around friends, every day in a different woman around the shuttle back and forth to enjoy the left side of the right to hold the blessing of the people, but in the end but playing with fire self-immolation, wife lover every day a variety of tear, No peace. Finally, physically and mentally exhausted, to grasp the bad balance, in the end to the basket of water a blank, and even hard business business has also been affected, from the cause of slump,
 
Mr. Wen foolishly said to the small fennel, in order to advise the brothers back to the shore, he also deliberately studied the face and men and women get along the feng shui.
 
Say that men are afraid of the wrong line, the woman afraid to marry the wrong Lang, in fact, men are more afraid to marry his wife! A good woman can be three generations, when a man began to derail, and bad women playing ambiguous time, that is, when he began to run back.
 
Finally, in order to let the small fen thorough peace of mind, Mr. Wen to the phone address book all the women are all removed. Fennel know, both moved and surprised, could not help but ask him, why do this? Really willing to give her a small tree to give up the whole forest?
 
Man, style, fashion, alone one person, male color, male male, BL, Europe and the United States, tough guy, masculine man

Mr. Wen said firmly: “love a person will give her enough sense of security, since I am determined to marry you, then the other sex does not have any meaning to me, since they will only keep you catch, It is better to remove all, so that you peace of mind!
 
“I really decided to marry me?” I said, “I have a lot of shortcomings.”
 
Mr. Wen said with a smile: “Although the shortcomings of your body as the stars, but kindness this advantage is like a beautiful sun, the sun came out, the stars are gone.
 
Now, the fennel and Mr. Wen have been married for seven years, with a five-year-old lovely daughter, seven years, Mr. Wen for the small fen turned off all the unnecessary entertainment, concentrate on doing a good job.
 
Mr. Wen’s good buddy children often jokingly asked him, men refused all ambiguous will die?
 
will not.
 
Will live well

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The high salary was scary, and the huge civil service ended up with the richest dynasty in China.

As the richest dynasty in Chinese history, the Song dynasty began to respect the scholar’s fighters from the founding emperor Zhao Kuangyin. During the Song Dynasty, the civil service team mighty, the treatment was so absurd – the prime minister’s monthly salary of about 600,000 yuan, the wages of low-level civil servants also reached 25,000 / month! Welfare is not to say: basic necessities of life are almost all taken care of. Not only that, retired veteran cadres actually can “promoted”!

But is that really okay?

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From the mysterious rules of Zhao Kuangyin

Chen Qiao station soldiers changed two years later, one day, has been expensive for the emperor Zhao Kuangyin ordered, people in the temple temple of a chamber in the legislation set up a stone tablet.

Chamber of Secrets were sheltering tightly, the key by the custody of the person, usually no one inside the entry. Only the temple held a sacrifice or the new emperor ascended the throne, only to allow two people to enter the watch: one is the emperor, one is the lead eunuch.

More intriguing is that the lead eunuchs allowed to enter the chamber must be illiterate – can not literally!

People guess, this piece of stone must be engraved with what can not tell the secret.

Until the Jingkang change, the Jin people occupied the Northern Song Dynasty capital Bianliang, open the mysterious house, the mystery was opened – this piece of high seven or eight feet, four feet wide stone, engraved with such a three Words:

“To protect the descendants of Chai, do not kill the doctor, do not add farmland Fu.”

► Zhao Kuangyin Jiangshan is captured from the hands of Zhou Chai, according to the general law, should Chrysler fooled to avoid future trouble, but he is very interesting, not only do not do their own, but also ask the children to take care of the whole;

► A Wu Wu Zhao Kuangyin, carry forward the “ancient prisoners” of the “fugitive”, respect for the intellectuals;

► Let the people recuperate and not compete with the people.

Later, this monument is called “vows”, these three words known as “Le stone three ring”.

Zhao Kuangyin’s central idea is: I have put aside the world, you do not have to do these people toss, and are safe and secure production, engage in construction it!

Song Dynasty civil servants of the beautiful era of this start.

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Officials are arrogant and dare to provoke the emperor

Zhao Kuangyin when the emperor, like to take a slingshot bird.

Once, the old Zhao is playing in the head, a few ministers said there is an urgent need to see, had to put away the slingshot.

However, he heard the fire: you say that thousands of urgent, can report are some small things, but also delay I fight birds!

The emperor was angry. According to routine, under the people who must quickly kneel down apology, slow a beat may be moving head! But the Song Dynasty civil servants do not follow the common sense of the card, as the lead brother of the long-term “Chongni”, they are cattle, dare to talk back:

“Chen thought that these things are not trivial, at least worse than the birds, right?”

Old Zhao this anger a channeling three feet, do not speak, easily picked the edge of an ax, with the ax handle destroyed the minister of the two teeth.

The minister did not call the pain, immediately lying on the ground to find teeth. Found, directly into the pocket.

Zhao is still not gas: “You hug a tooth to do, do not want to leave evidence to tell me not?”

The man who was playing full of teeth to find teeth, calmly replied:

“I will not tell you, but I will take it to the historian, and they may have written you into my book.”

Old Zhao ignorant, not only hurry to apologize, but also reward a large gold and silver cloth to comfort.

In fact, not only the emperor of the emperor had a good respect for the intellectuals, and his successors were very good at it.

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It is easy to be an official

In the Song Dynasty, want to be an officer is easy, a lot of opportunities.

Tang Dynasty Zhenguan officials of the total number of about 7,000 people; Ming Hongwu period officials are more powerful, but only about 3 million people.

Song Taizu, the total number of officials is about 5,000 people, Song Zhenzong increased to more than 9000 people, Song Renzong when there are more than 17,000 people, to Song Huizong, up to more than 48,000 people!

The number of officials increased significantly, which means that the imperial examinations move.

Tang Dynasty about a year to enter the Jinshi more than 30 people, the Ming about 100 people / year, the Qing Dynasty less than 100 people / year.

How much is the Song Dynasty? The two Songs in 319, total enrollment of 115,427 people, an average of 361 people each year!

Some of the emperor put the admission criteria put a wider, such as Song Taizong, reigning 21 years recorded a total of about 10,000 people, an average of about 500 people each year.

In other words, in the Tang Dynasty, would like to test the official officer, must be admitted to the top 30; living in Song Taizong period, as long as the test into the top 500 on the line.

Not only that, the Song also engaged in a “trick”, used to take care of those who did not try long, the saying goes is “dwarf pull a big one.” Through this channel to become Jinshi, as many as 50,352 people, an average of 157 people per year. Moreover, the court of these pull out of the “big” is very good, the same treatment with the general Jinshi.

Some people say that tens of thousands of officials of the team, not too much ah!

Here is only the “official”, not including “official” and “service”, in ancient times, these three are strictly different:

▷ “official” is the court registered senior civil servants, must be investigated, the imperial examination and other “right way”;

▷ “official” is not the grade of civil servants (“water travel” in the charge of the Song Jiang, infantry all the first Wu Song, charge of the class Dai Zong, infantry all thunder, imprisoned Yang Xiong, horse soldiers are the first Zhu Tong, are Head Li Yun, six cases of Confucius Pei Xuan, who are the identity of “officials”);

▷ “service” is lower than official, usually in the official office to do some chores.

Song Dynasty, a large county, but four or five “official”, a small county only two or three, and officials, servants are dozens or even hundreds of people ranging.

According to this ratio, a little count down to know, the Song Dynasty civil service lineup mighty!

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Too much
How is it done?

Want to be too many people, and the job is limited.

Song Dynasty all official positions are granted, often a few people at the same time guarding a position (unlike some dynasties to implement the “out of the system”, that is, a post only the location of the people left behind the people can make up), officer Do not know what to do, this phenomenon is very common in the Song Dynasty.

As a result, the court thought of additional posts,

Song Shenzong when an official called Wang Gui, his whole work is: on the temple waiting for the “imperial edict”, the emperor made a decision to “collar imperial edict”, after the DPRK told the following people to do, called ” ” Therefore, people sent nicknamed “three purposes”.

Additional job can not solve the big problem, then add institutions.

Since the Wei and Jin Dynasties, the basic structure of the central government is “three provinces and six systems”, the Song Dynasty on this basis, the new Privy Council armed forces, but also set the Secretary for the world tax.

More local institutions. The beginning of the country is only equivalent to the provincial level of the 15 “road”, then gradually increased to 26, each additional administrative area, it is necessary to add a team.

“Road” at this level of the team, respectively, set up to appease, transfer to, to raise the punishment according to the police, to mention the regular level so that 4 sets, each other level, divided soldiers, wealth, justice, rescue.

Moreover, the assessment of officials is also very loose.

Every 4 years assessment once, as long as qualified to be promoted. Song Renzong later changed to 3 years, which means that we promoted faster.

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The treatment was so absurd

Song Dynasty senior civil service wage level is generally 6 times the Han Dynasty, the Qing Dynasty 10 times!

We look at their income structure, generally divided into three parts:




constitute
name
Release form
Basic wage
Salad
currency
Kind of welfare
Clothing
Aya, cotton, silk, Luo and other things
Living allowance
Lu Su
food

In addition, each month can also receive the amount of different “meal supplement” and Chaihe, hay.

For example, the basic salary of the prime minister is about 300 per month, the welfare of Linga 40, silk 60, cotton 100 two, Luo 1, plus grain 100 stone.

According to the Song Dynasty’s general price conversion, his monthly income of 500, that is, 500,000 money, at that time can buy a good rice 120,000 pounds.

According to the current slightly better rice prices (10 yuan / kg) calculation, the Song Dynasty prime minister’s monthly salary plus benefits, about 600,000 yuan today!

The level of relatively low officials, treatment is also quite good. The lowest level of basic salary of 20 officials, equivalent to the current monthly salary of 25,000! The other two gaps are not big, only about 4 times the difference.

Not only in the reign of high salaries, after retirement, these veteran cadres can also receive full wages!

And, festivals, the relevant government departments have to come home condolences, are not empty to go, to take the “year-old”.

In addition, the Song Dynasty has an unprecedented “retirement cadres promotion policy”: officials can also be at home after retirement and then promoted. Of course, is not a real job, but disguised retirement benefits.

There is a man named Zhang deposit minister, retired fifteen years, from the “retired ministerial minister” was promoted to “retired ministerial minister”, take the minister’s retirement salary.

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High salary raised a “corrupt heaven”

In accordance with the “high salary and honesty” of the truth, the Song Dynasty officials holding the unprecedented, after no one to the high salary, honest and honest seems to be natural.

However, high salaries did not stop corruption, corrupt officials.

History of the famous Song Dynasty big corrupt officials such as Ding said, Wang Qinruo, Cai Jing, Qin Hui, Jia Sidao, Tong Guan, Gao, Zhang Jun, Liu Guang Shi … …

Looking through the “Water Margin”, we see that the corruption of the Song Dynasty has been deep into every corner of society, there are big greed, under a small greed, people complain to the point where they can not suppress.

Wait until the reign of Emperor Huizong, corruption has become a common phenomenon can not help, Cai Jing, Wang, Tong Guan, Liang Shicheng, Li Yan, Zhu Jian, Yang Jian, Gao and other corrupt officials overbearing, can not be.

Song Ren Li Xin concluded: clean officials accounted for only 10%, the remaining 90% are corrupt officials.

Song Dynasty has become a “corrupt heaven” – “high salaries” of the negative textbooks.

In fact, scared to death of contemporary high salaries, but to help up the officialdom of extravagant wind:

► poor scholar born Lu Mengzheng, when the high officer later, like the chicken tongue soup, drink a soup will kill hundreds of chickens;

► a generation of the name of Kou Zhun, at every turn at home banquet, seats must use a special giant candle, bright like the day;

► Hanlin Bachelor of Pu Mengzong, his family meal, often also to kill ten pigs.

Rich and busy officials, often poems Fu “sun happiness”, one of the most famous works is Mr. Ouyang Xiu’s “drunkard Pavilion mind.”

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Efforts to collapse the finances and strength,
Officials are afraid of death

Easy to test, easy to get office, work leisure, welfare is also so incredible!

If you can through, I also want to return to the Song Dynasty official.

However, this is not good for the country: the money is not enough money to spend money.

Song dynasty was very rich, the court’s annual revenue peak has reached 160 million, about 160 million, the average annual also about 100 million.

Note: the middle of the Tang Dynasty is prosperous, but the financial income is only 3000 to 40 million two, the Ming Dynasty bank less, often only a few million two.

Song fiscal revenue growth is also very fast, but then no official team expansion and official income growth rate.

The early years of the Song Dynasty, Song Renzong reign (1022 – 1063) fiscal revenue of only 39 million or so, when the official pension expenditure accounted for about 1 / To the Song Shenzong period (1067 – 1085) fiscal revenue increased to more than 5000 million.

However, the national fiscal revenue to officials to pay wages are not enough, this time the official pension expenditure is 80 times the early Song Dynasty!

How to do? The court finally found a way to money: printing paper money!

“Cross” is the world’s first paper currency.

At the outset, the court had stipulated that the period of circulation of banknotes printed was only two to three years, and all of the settlement was due, and the reissue was required and the circulation was limited. Also provides a corresponding reserve system, to ensure that the “child” can be freely convertible.

Later, the court is getting worse, the deadline, the quota and the reserve system, and so on have been repeatedly broken – paper currency depreciation again, a large number of private abandoned, the Chinese people’s great financial innovation was so strangled.

Song is also the practice of the recruitment of soldiers, the sergeant also take wages, which makes the financial worse.

When the Southern Song Dynasty, vice president of the Ministry of Personnel Fang Yue issued a sigh: “the cost of food ten times in the past, the cost of Paul Lu hundred times in the past!

And the high-paying civil servants and generals immersed in the vanity and luxury of personal life, greedy dead and dead, when the population is less than the Song Dynasty several times the Western Xia, Liao, Jin and other countries from the soldiers come, they will only chatter to persuade the emperor Compensation sums.

The richest dynasty in Chinese history was so alive that it was eaten and alive.

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Are your focus on the place? To pay attention to your deal instead of your money

“I can not learn to learn to swim because I can not head buried in the water, always can not overcome the kind of water did not head fear, even if I know every technical details of breaststroke. In fact, very simple, as long as the head buried in the water , The body will naturally float up, and then do the breaststroke action, will be in the water smoothly ahead.
When I went to school, the teacher told him the truth of what he said above, “beyond the device.” He said when we taught us to throw the shot. He said, you do not care too much about the existence of shot, do not be too deliberate pursuit of throwing shot how far, you only pay attention to the correct throwing method, do every action should be done, shot will naturally be the most farther. Little story, big reason. Do not be too concerned about the gains and losses in the futures trade, but should pay attention to the transaction process, as long as each transaction details can be perfect, making money is a natural result.

In fact, almost every investor has to look at the market but missed the experience of the market, maybe later will say: I see more accurate, if I do, will certainly make a fortune. There are a lot of people have had a huge profit to understand the experience of Trader, but when they really take real gold and silver combat, the results are often not satisfactory. Look at the market, the actual difference between the actual manipulator and real combat is that, because there is no real or not real combat, so there is no worry about the loss of money, there is no psychological pressure. On the ground along a one meter wide road and the road to the 300 meters high altitude walk, feeling and difficulty is definitely different.

Money does not make sense for the importance of man. Investors involved in futures trading, in addition to some hedges, there is a big reason for speculation, in order to profit. This purpose is reasonable and lawful, nothing wrong with it. But if the futures trading, too much attention to money rather than the correct trading methods, the results are often counterproductive. It often leads to erroneous methods of operation, so that we are increasingly alienated from money.

1. Do not operate as planned, premature. Sometimes more than the loss of some investors feel fear is not deep stuck, but when the market when some floating surplus. Goodbye, pick up the basket is the dish, the two birds in the forest as a bird in hand, these proverbs so that investors can not calmly face the profit, often choose to quickly put off the profit position, and with a large The business is gone.

2. Violation of operational principles, failed to stop quickly. The shrinking of funds on the book will undoubtedly bring huge financial pressure on investors, in the face of losses, some investors often take ostrich policy, especially stock investors, as if not to sell the stock, has been holding so many stocks , Will not put the deficit into a real deficit. But this operation in the futures market is completely unreasonable, the city’s daily settlement system and the margin trading system and the characteristics of the expiry date, not only will continue to reduce the amount of books, but also does not allow you to have been unfavorable Position.

3. Do not operate as planned, due to fear of frequent stop loss. The loss of money will make the previous blindly arrogant investors to the other extreme, that is timid and sensitive. A little bit of trouble, a little bit of the price changes make the psychological pressure on investors heavy, thus forgetting the target price stop, blind stop. In fact, the market volatility is normal, the main intention to suppress the price of technical stop to stop the price of the situation everywhere.

4. Do not operate as planned, because greed missed the best playing time. Constant profit will make people smug, and missed a relatively good playing time, but fell into the “profit so much did not out, and now profit so little should continue to hold” the vicious circle, until the profit of the transaction Become a loss.



From the above four incorrect methods of operation, we can see that there is one thing in common, that is, not according to plan operation, too much attention to the money. So is there a way to make us forget the existence of money, only the profit and loss as a change in the number of symbols, profit and loss points increase or decrease it? Most people really hard to do. However, although we can not forget the existence of money in the transaction, but we can take the method of its weakening, will be more attention on the correct trading methods.

When you put the idea more on the transaction, it will naturally weaken the concern for money. Here are a few important steps to overcome this problem:
1, develop a strict trading plan: plan your deal, trade your plan. There is no difference between planned deals, impulsive transactions, and gambling alone. And do not comply with the transaction plan transactions, the results better than no planned transactions where to go, and even increase the development of the transaction plan cumbersome, the standard is not thank type. The correct approach is to develop a trading plan and trade in strict accordance with the transaction plan.

2, to develop a strict market principles: everyone will have their own basis, some people like to chase sell into, as long as there is a breakthrough or break down to establish a trend to catch up with the market position; some people like bargain-hunting top , That the price is too high or too low to sell the top and bargain-hunting; some love to inquire about the news, or listen to the recommendations of others to do a single. This is no problem, as long as you can verify the correct method and continuous profit can continue to use, and insist on using.

3, to develop a strict appearance principle: whether it is chase sell down or bargain-hunting touch the top, must be in advance to develop a stop and stop the target price. When the price appears contrary to the changes in the principle of our market, no matter how much loss, should stop out, and can not have any luck and wait for the psychological. Likewise, once the price reaches our price, the bag is safe. Perhaps this is not in line with the “let the full profit growth,” the precepts of the city, but the market is uncertain, we do not know the market in the end is to adjust or reverse, according to their own appearance principles only profit, the results will always be better than blindly waiting.

4, if you really feel stop more difficult, you can take the size of the way to narrow the position. This can be a certain extent to reduce the loss of psychological shock to the trader.

5, if it is afraid of Ta Kong Quotes, lest did not maximize the benefits and premature open, you can profit earning the first half profit, so that the other half profit “full growth.” This is a compromise and compromise on the principles of trade, although not the most scientific approach, but can reduce the degree of damage to greed and fear.

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No basis for the transaction is in gambling!

When we look at the static chart, most people can see clearly. With the weekly cycle to see the weekly chart, with the daily line to see the daily chart, with the time-sharing period with time-sharing map. Casually open a subject, can see very clearly – up or down or shock.

We use the IF weighted chart of the weekly chart to illustrate:

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In this IF weighted weekly chart, look at the static history of the chart is very easy to see, I said is to see the track has been completed. Of course, each person looks at the same chart to see the trajectory is not necessarily the same, but no matter the same or not the same, there will be an analysis of the conclusion. For example, I see this picture, will come to what conclusion?

In my analysis system, this weekly chart tells me – from a technical point of view, IF weighted index weekly trend is currently in the upper (3836.2) (2668.6) two horizontal lines within the box. This interval is called the shock interval, although the width of this interval is relatively large, but in any range of this trend I will see it as a shock interval within the trajectory. Then, in this large interval, I also see a 2717 low focus on the upward trend of the upward trend.

This is the result of my analysis of the IF-weighted weekly line – a small uptrend in a large shock interval. Control the static chart, the conclusion I think there is no problem. Can be compared with the static chart obtained with a clear expression of the text analysis, basically even if you can see the market. Of course, different people from different perspectives will have different conclusions. Conclusion There is no standard answer, you can have your conclusion, I can have my conclusion, because the analysis of the use of different tools, it is possible to draw a different conclusion. And, it is also important to analyze the conclusion is not the only condition for determining the success or failure of the transaction. Why? We often say “look at the market, wrong trade”, this sentence is the expression of this meaning.

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Some people may have doubts, since the look of the market will be wrong, that look useful? That is to say “see the market” is meaningful? I think that of course is meaningful. What is the basis of the deal? Should be based on our analysis of the market, such as the above chart, my analysis conclusion is “inter-range shock within the small rising trend”, then the operational strategy must be based on the conclusions of the analysis – large interval shock Is a fact based on the fact that you can develop a strategy of high throwing low suction; small rising trend This is also a fact, based on the fact that you can also develop a bargain strategy. So in the end is a large interval strategy to obey the inter-regional strategy, or vice versa? Then you see what you want to bet on the profits of the paragraph.

In other words, the trading strategy that the trader makes must be based on what he sees and is considered to be clear. There is also a question to be explained: the same analysis of the conclusions in different people’s thinking, the resulting operational strategy can be different. Some people’s ideas are “homeopathy”, some people’s thinking is “extremes meet”. These two ideas on the basis of the same analysis of the conclusion is entirely possible to make the opposite operational strategy.




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This example is to explain: “see the market is the basis for the development of trading strategies step”, the development strategy is also a step in the transaction process, to the final through the strategy to make money, there are several steps in the middle, which is why It is not necessarily the reason for doing the right. Because there are a lot of steps, you are one of the steps is useless. But “see the market” is the basic steps, we often say do not know when not to do, that is the meaning, not clear means that can not do trading strategy, no strategy is equivalent to the operation of gambling, although there are strategies Not necessarily win, but if the strategy can be copied, then the probability of winning the same strategy will be much larger.

Trading is a probability of the game, we are nothing more than to strive for their own strategy in the long cycle of a sample to have a probability advantage of things, as long as you can do this has a great win.

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“See the market,” the importance of the fact that needless to say, traders are aware that there is no basis for the transaction is difficult to copy. Earned also earned the muddleheaded, loss also loss of unknown so, is a lot of traders so far can not be the reason for the winner.

Learn to do the technical analysis of each subject, write down the analysis with the text, and make a trading strategy on this conclusion, which is the first step to complete the transaction, the second step is to start using your Strategy for real transactions. The second step in the first step is gambling, the odds are too low. So, the first step to do a good job, the analysis to do solid, it is possible to ensure that the second step to win a higher probability.

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The worst in marriage is never derailed

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Occasionally see a live version of the emotional program.

A couple of feelings of dissatisfaction, breaking the marriage in the lens of ten years of marriage.

Woman eyes and tears, crush to speak their own Biequ: fall legs still insist on work, with a baby, men never care about family affairs, but the next class to eat, push the bowl to play the phone, there are physical needs to climb On her bed, under the bed to see her as nothing, in addition to daily necessities, two people almost zero exchange.

Man cold face response: old lady wife, what can be said?

The woman looked at him and was speechless. And then turned to the male mediator, would like to discuss a reason.

Unfortunately the mediator apparently stands the man this team, almost slightly rap: Do you want to divorce for this? What is the reason? I told you that your husband is good, make money more than you, and honest, get off work home, now get off work to go home how many men?

Woman blunt, reluctantly theory: but I think marriage should not be so … …

The mediator interrupted her: you were too hypocritical.

Woman said: but I am not satisfied, the day was particularly depressed.

Mediator loudly: it was your problem!

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I see here, sigh.

In fact, admire a woman can bravely say the phrase “I am not satisfied.”

This sentence may hold back in the hearts of many people, but few people dare to say. Because the results come out, most of the same as the woman, was reprimanded, was ridiculed, was hard to go back.

So, can only be suppressed, make do with, pretend everything is very good.

Just, is not really good, the heart knows.

Friends have said that she was a colleague behind the knife, forced to resign, and my heart is dark. Home with her husband said, people look disgusted, give her a “not because of your own stupid?” She cut the food, rushing tears. Lost in the workplace she had nothing to say, but the intimate love of the cold words, it is sad.

I also remember that there are several families out to play, the road to turn over a very high wall, other people are her husband turned over to pull his wife, and the friend’s husband, his body jumped on the big move The.

Friends wearing a skirt high heels, behind the call, to pull me a ah. Her husband can not hear, farther and farther.

She had to curse the “deaf” side, while the hand to someone else husband.

I think her husband is not deaf, is deaf.

His heart is not “hearing”, can not receive her signal, can not catch her needs, naturally can not give her to respond – she does not help pull a helpless, she can not give comfort when she is depressed, even her Despair but also step on foot.

But he did not think this is a problem, just think the husband and wife should be so, their own money to raise the family even if the end of the points, the other needs of his wife, are hypocritical.

Friends said, now have to give up the efforts to communicate with her husband, every time there is something to say, are forced to hold back, because it is very clear that nothing more than a indifferent cold response, will only make themselves worse.

“As the days of the stones that breathe with the blocks, the days are dead,” she said.

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I understand her feelings. This kind of “deaf and dumb” type partner, really annoying.

Some men, in the community playing Ma Yang whip, both ways, ears six eyes all eyes, the brain whizzing.

Can be a home, in the face of day and night accompanied by his wife, they immediately turn off all communication, IQ fell sharply into a deaf and blind and dumb living creatures. She said what he could not hear, what she did he could not see, she wanted to know what he did not say.




So, described as the gas will be panting, is also appropriate.

Women in marriage, usually have higher spiritual needs than men.

When she said, “I raised the orchid opened”, in fact, with the man to share the joy, hope men can praise a “nice”, rather than casually ridicule “that broken flowers should have thrown.”

Indeed, no love, no interaction, no expression of love, the days can be too.

But that is the dead, will heart died.

If she is looking forward to the emotional exchange, spiritual interlocking all strangled, will inevitably feel hard.

This is not hypocritical, is the objective existence of feelings.

If the phrase “I am not satisfied” in the heart thousands of turn, but can not speak, it is easy to become a resentment, turned into hostility, unstoppable rushed out to make the relationship worse.

Men do not know the woman again and again again and again behind, the accumulation of how depressed, depressed, depressed, just think she was picky, gloomy impermanence. So more want to escape, want to become a stone, do not listen do not see do not say.

Malicious cycle, the marriage gradually stiff.

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Often hear the couple quarrel, the woman said tired, man frown: who is not tired?

Woman on the resentment, began to nagging their own every day how much heart to do, how many things to do.

Men are tired, think this woman is really annoying.

But if there is a choice, who is willing to show a cheer all day?

She was so annoying because you did not hear her heart.

She said tired, in fact, made a desire for your thoughtful signal. You just back to a “hard you”, she flew all right.

But you just lean with her hard, top she was filled with resentment.

Obviously a recognized, a sense of pity will be able to happy question, but must not be made into the pimple, how silly ah

And if you are tired, you can say that she is willing to share what you can.

Closely related to the two people, mutual care, Baotuan heating, this is not the meaning of marriage?

In fact, two people can form a husband and wife, at first most of the love and cooperation. You are willing, I am willing, so only life together. And, must also hope to be together.

But why so many couples, through the more bitter the worse, from the close to the fall apart?

The problem is not the time to spend love, but in the process of dissipation of love, you did not establish other emotional links.

The reason why failed to build, because one or both sides closed the heart of the channel – you said, I do not listen. I want, you do not give it. So you grievances, I upset, although the relationship tied together, the heart is drifting away.

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Husband and wife live, like playing two feet, your left leg and my right leg tied together, in the long years to move forward.

During which the two will have different ideas and needs, I am tired to take a break, you need my leg dress medicine, I would like to see the scenery here, you want to speed up the speed of catching others … … this form, the exchange Is extremely important, if one of them is deaf and dumb and blind, can not hear the other that tired, do not see each other injured, where they want to go do not say, just self-care head, the other will be so strange, two people Can be a harmonious tacit understanding to the end to blame.

Any long-term relationship, if you want a solid good, there must be a premise: take care of each other’s wishes.

I am able to send out the information that you know to try to receive and respond positively. In this way, we can in the long cooperation, always know each other, help each other, each other to accommodate, even if the road is far away, is still concentric, willing and common.

And if you are a deaf and mute partner, the marriage is good, it is broken more than half. Even if it looks like a family of three neat, three meals a day placid, behind is barren, but also dry, but also empty.

You can stand in a hunt, “I do not bet on prostitution is not evil, good enough.”

Her heart is “you are deaf and blind and dumb, I have enough.”

A good marriage, really do not buy a house a child is perfect. Spiritual satisfaction, is the measure of the quality of marriage standards.

We often say that companion is the most lucrative confession.

The so-called companionship, not like a piece of stone keep on the side, but I win when you give applause, I am depressed when you provide comfort, I am cowardly when you are much encouraged.

And then you give me, I will double your return to you.

Happiness is the beginning of this way.

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Dear, there is no hail of bullets outside, please do not self – attack

There is a consultation, the other is a 20-year-old girl, looks very comfortable people.

She is very serious with me, said: “teacher, I think I look particularly good.I my skin is not good old pox, his eyes are big but no god, face too round too big with a cake like, legs still so Rough, and will not make – up, as long as others looked at me and I think the other side certainly think I am ugly.

I carefully looked at her for a moment, in any case can not put her that person, with the front of the girl equate.
 
After the consultation, I repeatedly think about her appearance of their own evaluation, suddenly remembered many years ago.

At that time I just started to do personal growth counseling practice, once do not know how to chat, just like the supervisor talked about the personal appearance.

I told the supervisor said: “I have always felt very ugly, myopia, small eyes, collapse nose, big mouth, poor skin, legs do not look good, the proportion of body is not good … …”

I breath blablablabla finished after their own also stunned: my God, my evaluation of their own is so poor and harsh. These evaluations did not want to want to fall into the brain are blurted out.

Supervision let me think about what parts of their own body is satisfied, I thought for a moment, is still helpless shook his head.
 
After a few weeks, arrived in the consulting room, the governor looked at me and said: “You are very beautiful today’s card, the whole person is also very spirit.” I was talking about the mouth, but my heart was thinking: This is certainly not true.

 

Not just the appearance, admit that they are good enough for many people is a very difficult thing.

When others show praise and appreciation, some people feel the anxiety and fear is far greater than joy and excitement.

Because they have a voice to remind yourself: TA is not true to me, so TA recognized the real time of my, certainly not so say.
 

G is such a person.

To pay a good boyfriend, but G always feel that he fancy, is his own family conditions, and their own in front of him to show the well-behaved and look like, and not like the real oneself.

Whenever a boyfriend expresses her liking, the first reaction in G ‘s mind is always “Please do not let your eyes open, how can i say you are so good.

With “I am not good enough” this belief, G effort to do a lot of things to please boyfriend:

Learn to do boyfriend like to eat the food;
In the boyfriend a month before the birth began to carefully prepared a gift;
Obviously they are too sleepy also insist on chatting with her boyfriend;
Boyfriend did not want to say a little like a thin sister, she opened a crazy weight loss model … …
 

There are similar circumstances there Zheng Shuang.

Usually understand the good girl image of her, in the participation of a file variety show, the father advised her not to deliberately lose weight, has been very thin.

She was out of control and crying: “If I become a big fat man, will the audience like me?”
 
For them, giving love is much easier than accepting love.

When others show good, they will not consciously limit their own to accept, in order to avoid and their negative understanding of the conflict.

 

Whether it is Zheng Shuang, G, counseling room girl, of course, including me, and perhaps also include you, there are such problems have a profound reason.

First to date back to the early and parents or one of the attachment relationship.

There are three attachment relationships in psychology:

Safe attachment:

This child is very comfortable with the attachment of the parents, the dependents are more willing to take the initiative to explore the new environment;




There will be some frustration when the dependents leave, but when they come back they will be very happy and can be calm soon.

Avoidance attachment:

These children are not interested in the dependents.

Although the dependents leave the room when they cry, but when the dependents come back they do not feel happy, always turned and cried to crawl.

Contradictory attachment:

These babies do not want to leave the dependents at first to explore the new environment.

Later, when the dependents leave, they will cry;

The dependents can not calm down when they come back;

But when the dependents want to get close to them, they show both contradictory and intimacy.
 

Those who think they are not good enough to form a avoidance attachment pattern in childhood.

In the process of interaction with parents, the need for attachment is not met in time, or the parents have taken a negative, blow, question, indifference and other treatment (think about whether your parents always remind you not to be proud to tell you where you look good To always pay attention to the image).

In adulthood, childhood unpleasant emotional experience to promote their simply shut themselves up, take the initiative to avoid each other’s show and love.
 

Second, it is based on the cultural context of social comparison.

In the traditional aesthetic standards, the thin is the United States.

Standard oriental beauty face is also mostly big eyes high nose white cherry mouth white skin.

Therefore, not only passers-by, including the stars are also invariably toward the aesthetic standards of this unremitting efforts, every three out of a time to change the face of the face of the apple is not common.

In terms of character, gentle, thoughtful, sensible, good to get along seems to get more people’s favor.

After these standards are internalized, many people in interpersonal relationships that show that will be more popular.

But also feel that their original character or appearance than social and cultural requirements of the ideal standard; on the one hand, in the pursuit of this idealized standards while strengthening it, and further produce their own negation.
 

How to change the “I am not good enough” cognitive?

Through the self-acceptance to enhance each other’s respect for us and love.

Increased self-acceptance capacity can reduce the pleasing behavior of “I am not good enough” to deal with different relationships in an equal perspective.

Face the praise of others, first in no hurry to deny and refuse, try to accept which you feel more in line with the part, slowly expand the generalization.

And so one day, others praise you praise your good time, your inner OS is “nonsense, I certainly know that my beauty is, you have vision”, then you have come out of self-denial, gradually accept the world And yourself.

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Your favorite Starbucks has 330,000 employees, nearly 90 billion market value, its founder to “re-start”, the reason is … …

Just two days before Starbucks opened its first store in South Africa, Howard Schultz, as always, communicated with young people who were “green aprons” in those coffee shops. They had 50 people. Shultz, who first arrived in South Africa, thought he would hear about poverty, hard day-to-day complaints, but unexpectedly greeted him with a happy and happy smile in harsh environments.

At that time, he also learned a word that many young people mentioned many times, UBUNTU (Uban), meaning “because of you, me” – in African traditional culture, which represents loyalty and connection.

In the speech of Tsinghua University on 11 April, the founder of Starbucks repeatedly stressed this idea. Those who want to listen to Starbucks shop know-how, or a glimpse of its marketing secret audience will probably be disappointed, in Schultz view, Starbucks shop in the shop, shop design to do are good, but this is the row In the second place.

His story “A story about dreams and responsibilities” has revealed this, this topic so that some people are dull, but also after listening to ridicule the “American dream” of the “spokesperson” and not expected to fill Played the “chicken soup”. Also, Schultz uttered a seemingly unaware of the truth – a lot of business operators know but can not do, but the habit of neglecting – really these achievements have this 26000 chain Shop coffee giant?

There will be a lot of people who do not believe, but Schultz believes. This may also be the difference between an entrepreneur and a businessman.

People’s business, not the service business

“At the top of the Starbucks pyramid is not a shareholder, but our employees, the middle is the customer, the bottom is the shareholders.” Schultz stressed in his speech. For Starbucks, the most important asset is the staff who are rushing behind the counter – they call it a partner, because most of them, including part-time staff, can hold Starbucks stock.

This was the plan launched in 1990, when Starbucks ended a three-year loss, ushered in the first profit year, Schultz was able to plan the “coffee bean stock” program made public – to 700 Employees donated stock. Starbucks was not a listed company, the full allocation of the need for special design, but also need to be the Federal Securities and Exchange Commission’s concessions, of course, more challenging is to persuade the board of those who worry about the shares of diluted shareholders, Schultz told them , If each employee can be integrated into the whole, they will be the same attitude with the CEO to treat the company.

It can be said that Starbucks spared no effort to show the business of the “partners” in the sincerity, “Starbucks: coffee, business and culture of the legend” (hereinafter referred to as “Starbucks”) mentioned in these books, the book on Schultz Some of the practices in shop expansion and private affairs are quite weak, but they have to admit that he does attach importance to employees. In 1991, an early employee of Starbucks was suffering from AIDS. At that time, Starbucks did not set up such insurance, but Schultz had pushed the human resources department out of the way, trying to reimburse employees for medical expenses and Medical insurance covers all the sickness of all employees.

Schultz said that both as parents and entrepreneurs, from the first day began to mark their own beliefs hit the child or business – whether or not aware of this, it is unlikely to use an ethics Class to easily change their worldview. When he remembered his start-up, he had the “short-sighted” problem of most entrepreneurs – they were struggling with nothing but one thing that had to be done, that is, to instill in principle.

“Partner” value is the first Starbucks early to mark the mark.

This complex can even be traced back to Schultz’s childhood. At that time the billionaire who built the coffee empire was a helpless 7-year-old child whose father was dismissed by his employer for his leg injury, with no income, no medical insurance, and a family crowded into the government house, His initial imagination of the ideal business, that is, the establishment of a father did not have the opportunity to work for the company: one of them can share the success and wealth of enterprises.

In his view, this is not generous or charitable, but the foundation of business operations. Up and down with the premise, is up and down with Lee. Schultz said that this effect can not be assessed, but the benefits of deep beyond imagination. It is these people to support Starbucks store expansion and performance growth: Starbucks in 2012 when the market value of only $ 273 million, but now the market value of nearly $ 90 billion, Schultz has therefore among the world’s most profitable top ten CEOs The list.

But then Starbucks and the original has been quite different, and the requirements of 330,000 employees and 30 years ago can not be compared – this also to Starbucks and Schultz made a higher demand.

Speaking at the same day at Tsinghua University, Schultz put forward the “Parent Care Program” at the “Starbucks China Partners and Family Exchange”: June 1 to provide comprehensive insurance for employees who meet the requirements. This is a different from the American employee benefits, Schultz said in his speech, “China ‘s young people this and the United States, they are born with a family burden, from parents, and even grandparents.

This will allow Starbucks to increase its annual investment in millions of dollars, but it is equivalent to Starbucks in China’s future development ambitions to buy a “insurance.”

In the context of a slowdown in the US market, China and the Asia-Pacific market were unusually outstanding in the first quarter of 2017, up 17.9 percent year on year, up from 6.7 percent in the world, and in Starbucks’ new development plan The average annual opening of new stores in China is expected to more than 500.

“We are in today’s environment, on the one hand to obtain capital much easier than before, on the other hand there are so many competition, so many noise, so in order to really successful is not easy – win and lose between “Where is the greatest strategy in the world, if the employees lack confidence in the company, the management, the corporate culture and the goals, the strategy can not be long.” Schultz said.

Spiritual leader

Many people say that Schultz’s favorite “chicken soup” speech, the fact is the same, Schultz has always liked to talk about him and Starbucks dream and values, “Starbucks” author commented that this is some cliche, but Schulz Very sincere.

The origin of poverty, hard work, and even the major public lectures and interpersonal communication courses offered by the university, as well as the years of marketing, have made him a fit for the “evangelist” role.

A Starbucks manager once said that in the eyes of Starbucks, Schultz is simply a rock star, some people not only familiar with his writings and almost back to the stream. A Starbucks barista also said that new employees were like brainwashing at the time of training.




Investors are also infected by such a person. Schultz said he had a doctor in the early days of the creation of a cafe, the other did not understand the plan he wanted to show, and he did not drink coffee, but gave him out of a huge check, “I’m investing in your people, not your thoughts,” he said. “Many of the investors are based on the same considerations,” Schultz said. “They believe what I believe because they have not seen such confidence in anyone else.”

Now 64-year-old Schultz is still the case, his stage articulate clear, simple and clear statement, no muddy water feeling, even the courtesy of the “you’re welcome” from his mouth, all seem to mix both refined , And decisive taste.

This is only his side, he has another side: stubborn, strong, if that his passion can not bear to refuse, then his harsh people are not dare to refuse. It is said that he kept dozens of newspapers and magazines briefing on Starbucks, and even invited journalists who did not like him to go home and criticize it.

“Starbucks” that book in order to know the real Schultz, it is better to play a game with him, which quoted a Starbucks staff as saying, “Schultz good, but he is the most I have ever seen Aggressive basketball player “- he was too aggressive.

This is almost certain. Shulz, who came out of the slums, had the kind of bite of the firm, when he was from a well-paid business is almost pedantic self recommended to only five stores Starbucks to do the market, after being refused to Buyibuo For the new business “every day” coffee shop financing; he found 242 of the people, 217 people answered “No”; he was the same as the founder of the new business, And even described himself as a “humble dog with a tail”; and he saw Starbucks in the hands of his successor from the right track, and quickly return to the role of the controller, although many people did not accept, but he clearly Said “the decision is no need to discuss.”

All this can not just hang a sign smile, looks always refined Schultz can do, this “mask” behind, has a more powerful style and more assured, and even stubborn adherence.

This style continues from business to political stance, such as when US President Trump announced the immigration ban, Schultz announced that the next five years will hire 10,000 refugees, and said Starbucks will fully support the Mexican coffee plant By.

Schultz has always had a high level of participation in public policy – perhaps it is a market that covers 75 countries, with hundreds of thousands of employees around the world is difficult to avoid the point, in fact, many of his public behavior is In 1997, a looter shot a Starbucks three clerks, and Schultz immediately announced that all the profits of the store would be donated to a nonprofit organization that was committed to preventing violence.

In 2016, Starbucks, who rarely advertised, published two versions of the advertisements on the New York Times, but nothing to do with the product, every American citizen should be more optimistic, united, humane, fair and responsible To the “American Dream” to build a better country. Many people speculate that Schultz might run for the next president of the United States, he said in an interview with CNN Money reporter, “I never said no election, but now is not the right time.” “I’m still a young man,” he joked.

“Re-start”

At least now, Schultz can not leave Starbucks. This can be seen from the reaction of Wall Street, in December 2016, Schultz outgoing CEO news after the announcement, Starbucks shares fell 4%.

This fear came largely from the shadow of the last Schultz, and in 2000, when Schultz handed the Starbucks management token for the first time, the latter had grown for several years, but accumulated Deadly development risks, these problems broke out in 2007, when Schultz walked into a Starbucks store in Seattle, found that the shop is not the reason for the coffee mellow, but charred cheese flavor, he knew Starbucks already “Sour”, and he had to leave the years after the re-command of Starbucks.

“We are wrong, we must honestly face.” Schultz said.

He came back to do some of the two “ritualized” thing, one is to require the United States 7100 Starbucks coffee shop closed for 3 hours; the other is the biennial Starbucks leaders from Seattle moved to New Orleans held – a not yet Hurricane Katrina from the rescue of the city, which coincides with Starbucks predicament. There is no doubt that the shop has caused a loss of millions of dollars, the meeting of people and places is also a large project, but Schultz through these actions to show his position and determination.

After a series of initiatives, Starbucks back on track, Starbucks shares in 2011 to return to high points, even better than the record set in 2006. But after this twists and turns, Schultz for Starbucks irreplaceable, even more self-evident.

If the Starbucks plight in 2008 is subject to the global financial crisis swept, then today’s Starbucks facing the macroeconomic situation is also optimistic, due to the impact of poor catering and retail markets, Starbucks Group has cut sales expectations in 2017 fiscal year, How will Kevin Johnson, the successor to the background of the technology industry, continue the future growth of this chain of retailers?

“I do not go anywhere, just at Starbucks,” Schultz said. According to Starbucks, he will continue to serve as chairman of the board and act as executive chairman, focusing on retail innovation and high-end retail growth.

At the end of 2014, the first “Starbucks boutique baking factory shop” opened in Seattle, followed by the second store, will be opened in Shanghai at the end of 2017, which can be seen as a Starbucks high-end efforts, and Starbucks finally Very close to Italy – this market so Schultz had wandered wait and see for decades.

Of course, more importantly, this will give Schultz mouth to provide “the best coffee” Starbucks somewhat with some convincing. Once, Starbucks has attracted the attention of the whole world in a fresh fashion, and has set a coffee boom at what it is, but it is hard to convince those who mix Starbucks and McDonald’s.

From a professional manager’s point of view, this may be harmless, but it has been difficult to accept the ideal of Schultz, who has always had coffee. He has pointed out that the difference between the two, “If I was a professional manager, I look at Starbucks and the market point of view and now will be different.Founder familiar with the enterprise to create each element, we know what is there The ambition of the company, and the creation of what it requires. This knowledge, the understanding of the past, and then the integration of high enthusiasm will be invincible, of course, there are sensitive to the wrong.

He has not forgotten his first experience in Italy in 1983, it is more like a coffee pilgrimage trip, he saw behind the counter and the customer intimate chat barista, see them as creative works of art to red coffee , To see flowing in the coffee shop in the romantic and charming atmosphere – these have also become his future opening of the coffee chain business enlightenment.

“In 2016, Ma was invited to participate in the Starbucks,” he said. “In the year, Ma was invited to participate in the Starbucks,” he said. “If Starbucks had only one day of coffee, then it would probably be the time to go down.” If only sales were left, there were only a few shops left, Coffee, I believe Starbucks will not go too long.

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Sick of it

Recently ready to take home with the family to play in the United States.

However, the idea is beautiful, the operation is too annoying.

The first is a visa. I am a freelancer, the probability of refusal is high. Even if I moved out of the water is very impressive Wang fried, travel agencies still say: “This really can not guarantee … …” suddenly felt the world of freelancers thick malicious.

There is also trouble to prepare the information. Where the signature, where the seal, where to pay, where begging … … I have not much time, so a turn, N things are falling.

The most troublesome is that do not know whether to go with the group, or free exercise.

You know, with the course of course easy, but, there is no initiative, all the spots are catching up, at every turn let you buy buy, do not see anything.

Free to do it, the language does not pass, you can not like a sucker, eat two hamburgers, in the United States on a walk around the street.

So, alas, trouble bothers up trouble …
 

Of course, the freelance of this identity, as long as I want to end, at any time can.

But English is my sworn enemy, let me hurt my brains.

Before listening to some loaded opponents say that English bad can also travel around the world, you smile and has been polite enough.

Fart!

2015 in Japan, I went to the supermarket to buy things, the results found that looking for money seemingly wrong.

The clerk is a Japanese girl, laughing Yingying, I also smile Yingying.

But with wool!

She does not understand English, I do not understand. Two people with two deaf children, ah ah ah ah for a long time, red face thick neck, but who can not understand what the other side, anxious my sweat should be down.

Later, no way, had to re-count it again, hey, found missing a count, no problem with the integer, which resolved the embarrassment.

You see, in the supermarket to buy things may be in trouble. If walking around the world, English barrier, difficulties can be imagined.

In case of crime, even told the police fillet case will not.

Met handsome guy, even hook are helpless.

So, I am most regrettable in this life list, did not learn English, forever accounted for the previous one.
 

After the college entrance examination to cancel English, many parents think that English can learn to not learn.

wrong.

Do not speak English, the world will close the door to you.

Travel, study, work, circle and personal growth, will be blocked.

The earth is becoming a global village.




Only Chinese, life trapped in the country, can not take a step forward.

Will be free to speak in the world. Spring live in New Zealand, summer stay in northern Europe, autumn play in South America, winter in Hawaii sun. Is there a problem? no problem. Girl my English is good! Where is the chat world.

Hu Ge soon to study in the United States, why he can go! Because he is good in English. And the stars ABCDEFG who, because the language can not pass off, went to nothing Do not understand what to use!

A friend who works in Tencent game, recently immigrated to the United States. A family of three in California to buy a villa, took a green card, I do not know how envious people. He was able to immigrate, in addition to strong ability, high quality, English also help him all the way.

You may want to say: you want to learn English, then now school ah … …

Difficulty, difficult on the blue sky!

A mess of work, mess of housework, messy relationship, messy idea … … will be a little bit to exhaust your time and attention.

Want to learn, powerless.

Learn English, or have to start from the children.

Children’s psychological researchers believe that the golden age of foreign language is 4-5 years old.

Too early, learning ability has not yet developed;

Too late, people’s attention lax, time fragmentation, it is difficult to have effect.

You may be worried: 4-5 years old can learn well?

Yes.

A study from Harvard University says that children have a natural learning ability that began to develop around them at the age of four. It can be said that almost half of our learning ability was developed before the age of five Perfect up.

But must pay attention to: 4,5-year-old children must not teach. Teaching is wrong, life is difficult to correct; teach bad, life is inconsistent with English.

Good child English teaching, we must do the following two points:

1, to have a good professional teacher. As a language enlighter, English must be pure, the best teacher’s native language is English. Many domestic English teachers bring their own accents, will take the children with deviation. In addition, the teacher also understand children’s education, know the child’s characteristics and nature, standing on the child’s point of thinking, “what children,” “children for what”, “children can accept what”;

2, scientific and happy teaching system. Education is not what I say 1, the child followed to say 1. It needs the whole environment are in the voice: “play together, learn!” Children immersed in this educational environment, culture and knowledge, will be slowly in the joy of infiltration, into his consciousness.

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