I saw a passage: “If you have too little frustration, you will feel that you are bothered.”
When you experience the truth and falsehood and see the truth of the world, there is not so much acidity. You are getting more and more silent, and you don’t want to say more.
Yes, after middle age, I often feel lonely and often silent. Because every day you open your eyes, you are surrounded by people who depend on you. No one can rely on yourself.
More and more silent, more and more do not want to say, it is clear: life comes and goes, few people can enter into the heart.
No matter how much pain and grievances, you don’t have to say that everyone will comfort you, or you can be a joke, and you can really heal yourself.
In fact, silence is a kind of maturity. It has obscured many things, and has seen many people, not arrogant, not vocal, and has their own unshakable power.
When I was young, I always cared about what others thought of myself. When I heard the gossip, I was worried about it. When I was misunderstood, I was eager to argue. When I met a little grievance, I said.
I have experienced more things and I like silence more and more. Life is your own. You don’t have to look at others. You don’t have to care about other people’s opinions. Sometimes, when you say more and more mistakes, silence is more convincing than explanation.
Life is not as good as seeing through.
Good things and bad things will eventually become a thing of the past, not too persistent. People who can’t understand it, just turn around silently;
If you can’t let go, learn to be indifferent; you can’t get through the heart and learn to let go.
For decades, in the long river of a long time, but in a short period of time, looking back, the big things are small things, why bother?
Nan Huaiqi once said: “Three thousand years of reading history, but not only fame and fortune; 90,000 miles of enlightenment, and ultimately to the poetry and wine garden.”
The most difficult thing in life is to cultivate a normal heart, to be worth it, to lose it, to be silent. Everything is lighter, and it’s a slap in the face.
In the past, there was always a lot of trouble in my heart. Later, I liked silence more and more, and I didn’t want to say more and more. Because I put it down, letting go of the past is to let go of myself.
After reading a story, a bitter person asked the Zen master: “I can’t put down some people and things.” The Zen master said: “There is nothing in this world that can’t be put down.” The bitter said: “But I can’t let it go.” .”
The Zen master asked the bitter to hold a cup, and the Zen master poured hot water into the cup. The water was full, overflowing, and the bitter was burned, and immediately let go. The Zen master said: “It hurts, naturally it will be put down.”
Life will always experience some deception, injury, and even disappointment. If you have been entangled in it, the injury is ultimately your own.
Putting it down is not forgiving the person who hurts you, but for being gentle with yourself and not punishing yourself with the mistakes of others.
“The wind is not talking about the victory, the sleeves are the longest without words.” For those who deceive, hurt, and disappoint you, silence is the highest contempt.
Putting down the past and moving forward in silence, you can meet the “Yu dark flower and another village” after the “small mountains and waters have no doubts” and arrive at the place you want to go.
Come from the years, slowly understand that many people and things in the world are left to us. Sometimes life must be there, life is no time to force, if you can’t control it, just follow it.
In these years, I have weathered the storm, and I have had tears and pain. Some things can’t be touched, they can only be silent; some people can’t help but can only be silent.
It is also a kind of free and easy to be accustomed to the speculation of the people, to choose silence, and to follow suit.
More and more silent, because more and more mature. If you don’t like things, you can’t do everything right, you can’t control it, you can only go with the flow, don’t complain, don’t be angry, don’t force, don’t grieve, let it follow.
San Mao once said: “It is better to think of this phenomenon as an inevitable season, just as flowers and flowers are warm and warm.”
The joys and sorrows, the joys, sorrows and sorrows are like the four seasons of life, and they keep flowing. If you are self-sufficient, you can not be confused with your heart, not trapped in love, not afraid of the future, not thinking about the past.
“There is no reason to live without a fate, a breeze to send white clouds”, learning to follow, is the first method to put down troubles.
Someone said: “Nobody cares how you cry in the middle of the night, and no one cares that you have to toss and turn, and have spent a few autumns. Outsiders only look at the results and stand alone.
When you understand this truth, you will not be prejudiced in front of people, and you will be asked to be relieved. ”
As you become more and more silent, it is a sign of maturity. It is life that teaches you to be restrained and calm, and it is also the greatest humility and tolerance for others.
For the rest of your life, I hope that you will be quiet and indifferent, and you will be humiliated and insulted. You will spend time in front of the court and spend time unsuccessfully, and stay in the sky.